Alexander was a middle school student when she told her parents she planned to graduate from NDSU, where her dad, Dr. Shontarius Aikens, worked in the College of Business.
But when she shared her dream with her classmates and teachers, “they’d kind of laugh her off,” recalled her mom, Christyal Alexington, a special education teacher at Carl Ben Eielson Middle School in Fargo.
They knew Alexander as a girl who needed someone to walk her from class to class so she wouldn’t wander off, as a special education student who was assisted by paraprofessionals in general education classes.
Alexander, however, has never been easily deterred. She’s been overcoming odds since the day she was born, 14 weeks ahead of schedule.
Weighing in at only 1 pound 11 ounces, she could wear her dad’s wedding ring around her wrist, with room to spare. Her life began with heart surgery and an extended hospital stay. She has since had multiple surgeries on her hips and legs, relearning how to walk, again and again and again.
Shontarius, now an associate professor at Concordia College, says Alexander brings a resilient approach to life.
“If there is something she wants to do, she goes after it and doesn’t give up,” he said.