Caryn brought plenty of energy and ability to NDSU, but she recognized getting an education would require outside help.
Her mom encouraged her to apply for scholarships, because she knew the difference they could make. When Anita was at NDSU in the early 2000s, her parents weren’t able to help her financially, so she worked 40 hours a week to pay for school.
Anita’s on-campus work introduced her to friends and gave her real-world experiences, like managing the Memorial Union information desk and overseeing check cashing, the copy shop, and ticket sales.
But working kept her from participating in student organizations. Plus, she was dating her now-husband, Jake, who was farming in Chokio, so most weekends she went home to see him.
“I look back now, and I wish I would have taken more of the opportunities that Caryn has,” Anita reflected. “But for me, my life was in a different spot.”
The difference between her and her mom’s NDSU experiences isn’t lost on Caryn.
“I think it makes her a little bit wistful,” Caryn reflected. “But also, I think it makes her really happy that I get to do things that she never got to.”
Anita agrees.
“Caryn went to NDSU and it’s like for the first time in her life, she got to be who she wanted to be and do what she wanted to do. And with that, she just really blossomed.”